Round Table Discussion – Submission Is the Definition of Sexy

submission is the definition of sexyI am so excited for us all to come together again as a spanking community for week two of the Round Table Discussion – Community, Spanking, & More! This week our very special host is Natasha Knight who is one of my favorite authors and dear friends! This week we were asked to define what submission means to us. Be forewarned, this is a bit steamier than you may be used to from me. 🙂

I am not a natural submissive. I am the master of my own mind, ruler of my body, independent, spirited, and I like to be in control. It takes a special touch to draw out my submissive state. It takes a worthy touch. I need to be able to respect him in order to submit to him. Once he has that respect all it takes is a hand in my hair drawing my head back commanding my attention and a look in his eye. It’s a little predatory, a little no nonsense, and sexy as hell!

There is nothing like the dance of a dominant and a submissive. To me it’s intoxicating. For me submission is a huge gift and it is also a very primal thing. Not just anyone can bring out this gift and take use of it. My inner submissive can only be called up by her exact dominant match. There is an air and energy to it, and there is almost a scent. Once called up she will be that essence of sheer female to his essence of sheer male.

If he can bring it out I will do anything that he says. My inner submissive finds his inner dominant worthy and vice versa. Submitting to a man who can command my very soul is the greatest privilege on earth. I will suck his cock, offer my ass, and do anything he bids. He is my Master.

I have to say there is a little something (or a big something) to being made to submit. Punishment makes my knees go weak. I just can’t help but test the boundaries every now and then. I crave the feel of him making me submit to him. I enjoy the chase. There is nothing more humbling or that will make me feel more submissive than being ordered panties down over his lap for a sound bare bottom spanking, hopefully with a hairbrush in his hand.

In fact that’s why domestic discipline works so well for me. When doing the dishes and paying the bills is a constant turn on and I have an intimacy with my Husband others long to have then something must be working. When I test those boundaries and he takes me in hand I will lovingly serve every one of his needs and lavish him with my adoration and passion for him. Until the next time I need to be taken in hand and then the primal dance begins again.

Now make sure to visit Spanking Romance Reviews for more of the Round Table Discussion on what submission means to them! We have some amazing guest bloggers that you don’t want to miss! Click the graphic below and enjoy!

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Today We Have Thianna D Talking About Sex Toys On Her As Natural As Breathing Book Blog Tour Stop!

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Welcome, Thianna! I’m so excited that you decided to stop by on your busy Tour! I’ve been having a lot of fun keeping up with all the topics that you explore in your new book! This is definitely a must read! Everyone make sure to enter the giveaway at the bottom of the post! I will turn it over to you now, Thianna!

Thanks, Corinne, for letting my book tour be on your blog today:)

This is day 14 of the As Natural As Breathing Book Blog Tour. Have you been reading along? If not, you can find all the posts here.

Anyone here not like sex toys? No? Didn’t think so. They are fun, aren’t they? And being the adventurous person I am, I have found that everyday items can make incredibly fun toys. Think toothbrush…that’s all I’m sayin’.

Another thing sex toys are fun for is in writing sex scenes or even humorous scenes – the opportunities are endless. And, as always, they can be a great teaching tool. In As Natural As Breathing, Logan gets to teach Christian about a few he had either never heard of or had but had not tried before. Oh, the fun of walking through an adult shop and picking up things to try. Online shopping has taken away some of the pleasure in that. No matter how many times I go to an adult shop, there is always a slightly clandestine feel to walking through the dildo aisle or picking up the floggers to check them out. Shopping online at Liberator.com just does not feel the same – no matter how much I loooooove Liberator products.

In this excerpt, Logan gives Christian a suggestion he had never thought of before while they are walking through a sea of adult toys.

“…Now, do any of these appeal to you? If not, we could always go to a kitchen store. There are some fun things there.” 

 

“A kitchen store?”

 

“Yep. Wooden spoons, pancake turners, cutting boards…” Logan sighed.

 

“Wow. I never would have thought of that.”

 

“You will now.”

 

Spluttering, Christian nodded. “Yeah, I don’t know if I can go into Momma’s kitchen again without turning red.”

 

“Come on, let’s look at all the other fun toys.” Logan turned and quickly realized he was not being followed. As he turned to find out why, he saw what Christian was staring at and a huge grin crossed his face. Oh, this would be interesting.

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Book Description:

As Natural As Breathing

Length: Novel

Genre: Gay Spanking Romance

For Christian Darringer, life isn’t worth living. Just back from the Middle East; scarred and with permanent damage to one leg, he does not think anyone will want him for anything. Meeting a gorgeous man he finds himself thinking about constantly is not in his plans. Pulled toward the startling younger man with striking blue eyes, he begins to question a lot of things – especially his sexuality. Not one to hide from a challenge, he plunges ahead only to find himself more than just attracted to Logan who is full of life and joy, he finds himself head over heels in love.

Logan Mannette has almost everything he ever wanted: loving parents, happiness, friends and security. The only thing missing is finding the love of his life, a love that is just like his parents’. When he meets Christian at a party, everything changes. Instantly attracted, he does his best to help this sad man and quickly finds himself feeling more than he has ever felt before. Raised in a domestic discipline household, he holds that ideal as what he wants but his interest in spanking became a fetish and when Christian admits that he wants to be spanked, Logan believes he might have found the perfect man.

Just as everything begins for them, Christian’s past intercedes and one of his brothers makes waves about him dating a man. If it weren’t for Logan’s support, he might fold; but with the love of one amazing man, Christian finds that living his life rather than just existing is as natural as breathing.

You can find As Natural As Breathing at:

Amazon
Amazon UK
Barnes & Noble

Thianna_avatarThianna D

For Thianna D, reading and writing are as important as breathing and far more important than math or science. A storyteller from the time she could speak, she was always making up characters as a kid. As a teenager that turned to sci-fi and fantasy, as an adult to romance. It wasn’t until her fourth decade that she began writing erotic scenes within her stories.

Writing M/M came naturally to her; she wrote her first tale before ever having read one. “There is something about the amazing dynamic between two strong men falling in love and defeating anything thrown at them.” While she had written several BDSM stories involving men, As Natural As Breathing was the first full-length novel involving domestic discipline.

You can find out more of what is going on with her at:

Thianna D’s Blog

Thianna D’s Author Site

Goodreads

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Tune in tomorrow to get the URL for the next stop on the As Natural As Breathing Book Blog Tour. Now, get your entry for my giveaway:

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